Or do you fall into the trap of human nature, that is, automatically wanting what you don't have? Here's an example: I'm from New Jersey and my girlfriend is from New York. We always complain that we don't have real Chinese food here in Phoenix like we did back east. We long for good old fashioned NYC Chinese takeout instead of P.F. Chang's and Pei Wei.
My mother and sister came out to visit. We ate at P.F. Chang's and Pei Wei. The whole time they carried on about how great those places are, and how much they wish they had them back east instead of the 'lousy' takeout they're used to.
Interesting, isn't it? We all long for what the other person has instead of being thankful for what we already have and focusing on our REAL goals and desires.